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Why, why does this hurt this much?

Why is love soo complicated?
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SW-User
It's the worst feeling ever when it's not going well.
Lorieta · 36-40, F
@SW-User I swear it is. I feel so sad, disappointed, frustrated and a bit useless
SW-User
@Lorieta I know the feeling all too well. Love is only good when it's reciprocated to the same level, but that seems to be a rare thing to find. I hope you can get through it quickly. It's worse if it just consumes you.
FindingHope · 26-30, F
You are so correct about the same level! If you are at two different levels, it hurts like hell.. I'm going through that right now @SW-User
Lorieta · 36-40, F
@SW-User thanks. I hope the feeling will end soon
SW-User
@FindingHope I'm sorry you are too. I went through it a few times when i was younger and your emotions are so powerful back then and it affects every other aspect of your life. I also went through it at the end of my marriage. I thought i was safe from it later in life... but no.
SW-User
@Lorieta I found the shorter you know the person, the quicker you seem to get over it, although the initial pain is just as overwhelming no matter how long.
Lorieta · 36-40, F
@SW-User Sorry for the heartaches
FindingHope · 26-30, F
I'm sorry for your loss :( Yeah,its like they consume me.. Can't really concentrate about things..And it keeps happening.. @SW-User
SW-User
@FindingHope Thanks, and yeah i think it does keep happening until you find "the one". I'm sorry you have to go through this :(
SW-User
@Lorieta Thanks!
FindingHope · 26-30, F
I hope you'll feel better soon. I know the feeling little too well. Time does wonders, just give it some time. I know, easier said than done @Lorieta