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How to handle my husband?

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My husband moved here for me from another country 5 yrs ago. I discovered that he has many anxieties and insecurities doesn't like to mingle with anyone at all and on top of it is extremely lazy, childish and selfish. Sounds bad but those are literally every bad thing about him. No job in all this time.No remorse for not working. Doesn't clean without lots of fussing. This affects our romantic life. I don't want to tarnish his image by telling anyone so many details about our situation in real life. I'm so isolated in this situation. He loves me and now he is trying to work on some business that I purchased but even that is like more burden than help most days.
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helenS · 36-40, F
Please, how long have you been in a relationship with this man [i]before[/i] you married him?
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@helenS Many years long distance. Many visits. Talking to his family. My mom even traveled to meet him before. He actually took a big legal risk for me. That's what made me know he was very serious.
helenS · 36-40, F
@REMsleep Thank you — this is a typical case of "bad luck". I think nobody on here can give good advice.
All I can say is that, from my experience, people [i]never[/i] change.