If you are a woman do you feel that your husband is another child to clean up after?

@DoubleRings is that challenging?

it’s irritating. I’m not his maid. i used to think he just had a hard time keeping up but he is just content living in chaos. it drives me bananas because it takes 2 seconds to put something where it belongs. @memyselfandyou

@DoubleRings to it impacts other areas of your marriage?

yes i would say it makes me somewhat unhappy. there’s a couple reasons - first of all he is a hoarder and can’t let annnnnyyyytjing go and 90% of it is literally garbage — old newspapers bills, stupid shit he’s had for a million years. about a year ago we had a flood. it still didn’t put any pressure on him to get rid of very much. there were some rooms i couldn’t even enter.

the second part is that the house is never clean. ever. far be it from him to ever clean up after me, because he won’t even clean up after himself. it’s always on me. always. @memyselfandyou