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I called my ex after a 3 month breakup please dont give up reading x

He spoke to me he was ok but kept reminding me that it was me that split with him. Then after me trying to sort things out between us he told me he had met and slept with someone two weeks ago and is dating her. I told him I still loved him and wanted him back. He said it's not that easy & I get it.... but i felt he didn't want me thats why I split with him. He's turned the table and said I should have called sooner I did but he didn't say he wanted me back. The call ended with him saying he would call me tomorrow night. I'm scared to pick up the phone because he may choose to keep dating the new woman. I get the ferling he's playing with my emotions. This is the short version sorry.
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BeefySenpieM
Why do women chase men that don't care about them, then whine when they get hurt 馃
LyricalOneF
@BeefySenpie A very fair question.
cutiepi22F
@BeefySenpie I know we love too much I trust so much I guess. I was with him 6 years when he had no money. He has money now so maybe he can wine and dine the next one.
LyricalOneF
@cutiepi22 But so often there are huge red flags that go ignored.
cutiepi22F
@LyricalOne yes I'm so glad I asked the question. I was going insane and it wasn't my fault. He's keeping the blame thing. I think his intention was to make me split with him. He said he joined the dating site three weeks ago and he's been dating the woman for two week...I think his profile wasn't removed from the last split.
LyricalOneF
@cutiepi22 The relationship sounds very unhealthy and I truly hope you move forward instead of back.
cutiepi22F
@LyricalOne Thanks I'm sure you are right. He was the man of my dreams but it was all one sided eventually. Or perhaps longer than I truly realised.
LyricalOneF
@cutiepi22 Sounds like you might be in love with the man you want him to be rather than the man he actually is.
cutiepi22F
@LyricalOne This is also possible maybe thats why so much conflict. My head is really messed up and I'm drained.