I called my ex after a 3 month breakup please dont give up reading x

He spoke to me he was ok but kept reminding me that it was me that split with him. Then after me trying to sort things out between us he told me he had met and slept with someone two weeks ago and is dating her. I told him I still loved him and wanted him back. He said it's not that easy & I get it.... but i felt he didn't want me thats why I split with him. He's turned the table and said I should have called sooner I did but he didn't say he wanted me back. The call ended with him saying he would call me tomorrow night. I'm scared to pick up the phone because he may choose to keep dating the new woman. I get the ferling he's playing with my emotions. This is the short version sorry.

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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

He got over that quickly if you ask me and slept with someone else way too quickly but that’s just me.

cutiepi22 · F

@PaleandPolluted Thanks so much for the reply we have split before. I don't know if I'm being paranoid but he seemed tonight to be justify everything by blaming me it's easy to say. I think he was avoiding reality looking at the full picture. When I said you slept with her he laughed and said how did you know?

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Are you sure you want him back properly or is it because you miss the feeling of having someone? People appear more attractive when they are gone.@cutiepi22

cutiepi22 · F

@PaleandPolluted I know I'm struggling with it all. I did really love him. X I don't want to be an idiot either.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Didn’t you say you didn’t feel wanted? My ex didn’t make me feel desired physically I’ve recently discovered there’s people who do :) @cutiepi22

cutiepi22 · F

@PaleandPolluted That's good I'm glad you have that In your life. Yes I didn't but he said I was over reacting I began to doubt myself. Looks like everyone thinks the same I must sort my head out. Thanks
Its really difficult to explain in text it's complicated . Then again it might be simple ....He's done with me.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

He might think you were in his head just like my ex did when I found out he was watching porn everyday. They are obviously going to make it look like it’s you overreacting 😡@cutiepi22

cutiepi22 · F

@PaleandPolluted Makes you wonder if the can lie so easily will they always be that way and never commit. Maybe the next woman is a victim to who can tell. It is odd that as soon as he inherited money things got strange but he put it down to his father's death a few months ago. So no me and no Dad.