Does it make someone a bad person...

Does it make someone a bad person if they were off drugs and attacked someone without knowing and didn’t realize it until afterwards... The guy I’ve been seeing was off some strong ass Lsd and blacked out (I’ve not done it, so idk if it’s possible that he really blacked out) and choked his ex girlfriend to the point he almost strangled her until some guy got on top of him to hold him down. He was really off his shit that day. But I’ve been pushing myself away because I’m scared that could be me and that’s also what my friend told me, so that put even more anxiety in me. I thought with LSD you’re supposed to find yourself 😂

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GlassDog · 41-45, M

I guess it's the same argument as if a driver takes a drink that affects them more than expected and they kill or injure a pedestrian. In that case they will probably lose their license and ability to do harm while under the influence. In your boyfriend's case, it's down to the justice system to either take him out of circulation, and also down to him to avoid getting into this situation. In your case, I'd exercise as much caution as you feel you need.

SociallyAwkwardGirl · 22-25, F

He’s clean now. So would it be dumb to stay with him or should I run while I can@GlassDog

GlassDog · 41-45, M

@SociallyAwkwardGirl If he can stay clean and also prove over time that he's stable (and you want to stay with him), I think you could give him a second chance, but make absolutely sure that your own safety comes first and don't put yourself in situations where you could be vulnerable. I can't stress that enough. Your own safety is the most important thing here. If you don't feel you can be safe around him, I don't think you can be around him at all.