Have you ever been really attracted to someone until you heard them talk?

@iQuit only once?

@BelEsprit yeah I don't have crushes or attraction to many people
but once a long time ago I did and I snapped out of it when I saw their true colors.

Ever since then I re-evaluate my choices before I give the idea a chance to sprout into a reality, If that makes any sense

@iQuit It does make sense. I am curious though, why do you think you're not attracted to many people? It's totally opposite for me. I crush too easily.

@BelEsprit I protect my heart and mind from falling into situations that could potentially make me a shell of myself.

Heart-brake is honestly painful and some people honestly aren't worth the hurt because they don't value the purity that comes with someone actually caring for them and they take it lightheartedly toying around with them and just not truly cherishing the moment.

So before falling for someone, it helps a lot in analyzing a person's character and intent, that way time is invested wisely and truly cruel heartbreak is avoided. (not saying love-loss won't hurt but at least you'll know when whatever is over both parties will feel some way about it and not just one person will have grown from the experience)

@iQuit

I understand. I'm very careful with the heart of another. The choices I make that cause pain to that heart will come home to roost one day. That heart will deserve every effort of amends I will have to make to repair any damage I've caused. With that said, I'm one to jump in head first. Sometimes we linger on bridges instead of crossing them and we end up missing one helluva ride.

Good luck to you. ✌️