Is it bad that the girl I like is 14 and I’m almost 18?

So I’m going to be 18 soon and I know it’s illegal to date a minor if they’re more than four years younger and not at least fifteen. But I’m waiting for her (7 months) and she knows it. Is it weird that I like her?

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SW-User

No, its normal to be attracted to girls of all ages. You have to be careful because of her age.
So find an older girl for sex until the other comes of age. At your age your hormones are probably already taking over your desires.

flowerboy · 22-25, T

@SW-User No, I don’t believe in sex before marriage. I’m a virgin

SW-User

@flowerboy I wish you a lot of luck with that, I know that it is hard enough to behave now. Its going to get a lot harder as time goes on.
The peer pressure is going to make it even harder.

flowerboy · 22-25, T

@SW-User it’s not really a huge issue for me actually, I have a lot of shame and trust issues surrounding the topic

SW-User

@flowerboy I was the girls age when I first had sex. I found out how much I enjoyed Sex soon enough. After that it was all but impossible to stop.
Seven months is a long time, feelings can change. Either of yours could find someone else your attracted to more.

flowerboy · 22-25, T

@SW-User my shortest relationship was eight months. My longest was two years. I’m not like most guys

SW-User

@flowerboy you are only young once, don't rush into a relationship that you might regret later.
I made that mistake and married young, I thought I knew it all. It didn't take long before I was pregnant and everything changed. Bill's to pay, rent due, baby needs a lot of attention. It all catches up to you and what you thought you had all figured out, has changed.
If its meant for the two if yours to be together, it will be. Don't rush it, don't end up wondering what you ended up missing.

flowerboy · 22-25, T

@SW-User I plan on taking it slow and not expecting anything of it. I’ve been shown that true love isn’t real and soulmates don’t exist so I don’t believe in that. I believe in real effort to make things work. And I also believe that if we are compatible we’ll know before long.

SW-User

@flowerboy Good luck with everthing, I hope it works out for you. Your young, enjoy it now, before you know it you'll be my age and wondering where the time went