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Is it bad that the girl I like is 14 and I’m almost 18?

So I’m going to be 18 soon and I know it’s illegal to date a minor if they’re more than four years younger and not at least fifteen. But I’m waiting for her (7 months) and she knows it. Is it weird that I like her?
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SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
You like her, it’s fine. No big deal. What goes on in your thoughts might be pervy but liking a person way younger than you is okay.

Be like the Big Brother, Big Sister programs around your city.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie I don’t think about her sexually I just like her. I’m not a sexual or “pervy” person.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy Then why do you seem guilty? You can be a mentor and a friend to someone who is even younger than 14.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
Because my Mom’s girlfriend made a comment about how it shouldn’t be legal even at fifteen and it’s worrying me that my mom will have the same idea
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy They are evil in their thoughts. As teens, we all have had older teachers, coaches, leaders that we came to admire. I loved my piano teacher to death and he was very old. And I’m positive that he loved me too. There’s nothing wrong with that.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie I’m willing to wait for her. Hopefully time will go faster than I expect
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy Wait for what? Sex? Yeah, your moms friend is 100% right. You’re a predator.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie I don’t want sex?? Why does everyone on here try to convince me I want sex? That’s actually the last thing I want to be honest. The guilt and shame that goes with it, the fact that she’s so young, the fact that she isn’t my wife??! I will not be having sex until I’m in my late twenties to early thirties. Because I won’t get married until I’m financially stable and ready for children. I’m not having sex until I find a wife.
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy What are you willing to wait for then? Friendship? I told you already, there is nothing wrong with you being friends with her today. There is no sin in that. Be friends with everyone, of all ages, male and female. Jeez!
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie I mean wait to date her. I don’t want to have sex with her because we’re not married. And I don’t want to have sex with anybody until I find the person I’m going to marry. But I still have to wait just to date her
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy I think I understand better. You want to go on a date, like a romantic date and not just hang out.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie Yes but I’m just waiting until she’s fifteen so it will be technically legal
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy She wants to go on a romantic date with you too?
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie Yeah, she actually told me she likes me first
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy You both have romantic feelings for each other?
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie Yeah ☺️
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy So you wanna bonk her but you gonna wait till you’re married. Right?
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie Lmfao no I do not want to do anything more than hold her hand and kiss her cheek
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy Okay. Whatever 😝😂😂
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie You have definitely succeeded in making me laugh so thank you for that 😂
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy 😂😂😂 You ain’t fooling me or anyone else on SW. Men! Such liars. 👿
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie I’m really not like that... Lol
SimplyTracie · 26-30, F
@flowerboy If you say so. 😉
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SimplyTracie Oh my goodness. Women! 😝