When on a date, do you consider "rude towards waiters/waitresses" a red flag?

@Qwerty14, Hmmm... I try to give the benefit of the doubt. One person was like that at a municipal airport's little cafe; I treated her with courtesy, and before it was done we discovered that there were some serious family issues going on in her life. We ended up eating there several times, and each time, we had a chance to visit with her, and we became quite fond of her.

Always remember, servers have lives outside of the tables they are waiting, and they may be under some bad stress. <3

@billybcgn25 You could say that about anyone at any time. So either way it still isn't a red flag. It's easy enough to say either party shouldn't be rude but remember that only one of them is getting paid not to be rude.

@Qwerty14, yes, you're right. I stand corrected. Perhaps one of these days, I'll come to understand human nature, as I grow older.