So I have a male colleague that I very much enjoy spending time with. I fix my make up before I see him.....

I try to put myself in his 'path' so we can chat. But I honestly don't fancy him. I really don't..... But I'm behaving like I do. I genuinely don't get it. Thoughts?

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Lucia · 36-40

Sexual attraction?

Silenttears · 46-50, F

No not at all. It's weird lol @Lucia

Lucia · 36-40

@Silenttears There can be multiple explanations to it. But none of them will seem likely to fit it.

Maybe he has high social status and you'd like for him to fancy you?

* Not intending to make you sound superficial.

Silenttears · 46-50, F

@Lucia that is an interesting thought.