Guys, I need some help.

So my ex texted me today and asked why we don't talk anymore. I told him he didn't text me and I was in a happy relationship now. He apologized for the things he said and said congrats on the relationship. Even guys who I talked to before the relationship told me they were jealous and wish they could be with me/ miss talking to me. What's going on here?!!

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

Hm Ok I am not a guy so hopefully you mean guys as in all of us :P But my take is.. men, (and I lve men dont get me wrong) can be quite, opportunistic.. so they text hoping you are lonely.. and desperate.. yes it's because they like and miss you but perhaps more that they are hoping you are lonely and will erm pay them a visit.. for old times sake.. they hope, and sorry to be crude that you arent getting any.. sex that is.. so will be *grateful* for their kind offer to help you out with that..
As i say doesn't mean they dont miss you.. but they are hoping to get lucky

msoreally93 · 26-30, F

I thought that haha I told him we could still be friends but JUST friends, nothing more