Did you gain anything out of your past relationships?

Have you become cynical and bitter from them or grateful and thankful for them ?

Or do you feel you haven’t gained anything from them ?

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MissTaken · 36-40, F

Yes don’t marry an alcoholic with a violent streak

Bleed · 41-45, F

I didn’t marry one but I divorced one 😒@MissTaken

MissTaken · 36-40, F

@Bleed I didn’t know at the outset - also divorced

Bleed · 41-45, F

Mine was a high functioning alcoholic. Never missed a day of work and always got up early. So nobody else saw and knew what I had to put up with. He’d threaten too but never hit me but would punch holes through walls and smash shit up. He never apologised as he always claimed he didn’t remember what he’d done