What's a big turn off for you?

@HeavenBesideYou I hear you! I'm always running into people who actually think they are as smart, charming, and handsome as 'I' am. Can you imagine?

@HeavenBesideYou I'd go with that. Narcissism and rudeness too.

@puck61 Say it isn’t so! 😁

@HeavenBesideYou I've seen many outwardly beautiful girls turn into hideous monsters when they talk about themselves incessantly.

@SheikYerbouti I will agree with both, but at least rude people put who they are out there. Narcissists however, true narcissists, come off as charming to most people. They choose their victims carefully.

@HeavenBesideYou A lot of girls where I grew up (CA) generally have the trifecta of arrogance, narcissism, and rudeness.

@HeavenBesideYou ,[quote] true narcissists, come off as charming to most people. [/quote]

That's why I'm almost convinced I'm a narcissist. I am the most charming person I've ever encountered. My tongue is pure silver, and my manipulation skills are epic! That's why I find intuitive and insightful people so annoying. I just hate being 'seen through'!

@puck61 If the shoe fits...

@HeavenBesideYou Well, just do me a favor and keep this on the QT. I've noticed that people generally have dim view of narcissists, and if the word got out, I wouldn't be able to use, mislead, or corrupt anyone!

@puck61 They’d never believe me unless they had the chance to experience it firsthand