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Mamapolo2016 · F
I feel invested here. The Marvelous Me's point was - it's not enough that you want her - she has to want you - as a friend, a boyfriend. I know that's a tough one, but that's how it is nowadays.
@Mamapolo2016 indeed

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 Actually no - that is what entices me.
Mamapolo2016 · F
What (I hesitate to ask but have to) entices you? Oh, that it's not a tough one, you have to meet standards too? Really, what kind of achievement is it if there are no standards? @SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 You think that takes no standard? I'm going to guess the standards are higher now than they were say 30 years ago.
Mamapolo2016 · F
We have perfected the misunderstanding. We are agreed on this. There are definitely standards.@SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 Yes we have perfected that, but you are projecting that on me when we might just be the right age apart to see things slightly different.
Mamapolo2016 · F
Didn't I say 'we have perfected'? I'm not projecting it on you but accepting my responsibility as well. I think we both mean well, we just ...cross wires.@SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 And I agreed about 'perfecting'. ☺️ Life is better, sometimes, when we cross wires.. certainly there is more spark!
Mamapolo2016 · F
I know. Eventually one reaches the age where one can recognize one's own shortcomings. Sometimes.@SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 I usually take the quiet road on that one.
Mamapolo2016 · F
I know. You should practice. Try it. "Hey, I could be wr-wr-wr-wrong."@SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 Okay, don't know why you are making this about me. Often the one who offers guidance is the one needing, but have your way with your wisdom.
Mamapolo2016 · F
There you go. The best defense is a good offense.
It's okay. I have to walk my dog. We return to neutral corners and I walk out backwards.@SW-User
It's okay. I have to walk my dog. We return to neutral corners and I walk out backwards.@SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 If you only knew. Walk your dog. Best to walk your dog facing forwards unless you really trust them.
Mamapolo2016 · F
I trust my dog completely. Since I seem to have distressed you again, it's you I'm hesitant to turn my back on.
I did not say you ARE wrong, just that you should prepare for that remote possibility. Bye now.@SW-User
I did not say you ARE wrong, just that you should prepare for that remote possibility. Bye now.@SW-User

SW-User
@Mamapolo2016 Distressing me and upsetting me are way two different things... To me right now you are making a mountain out of a mole hill, walk your dog.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, FVIP
@SW-User Wow dude. Wow. I think you should re-read the comment thread. He was being nice and you completely missed everything he was saying to you.