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What makes a Man shut down after his heart or trust with a Woman is broken but, a Woman can get back up and try again?

Most women do get back up and dust themselves off but, men seem to hit the pavement and don't get back up. Where as, there's a net at the bottom for a woman.
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Lostpoet · M
Because men like fixing things. But if you are a broken dude than women think you are weak. And weak is never attractive.
MysteriousRose · 26-30, F
@Lostpoet In my opinion, a hurt man isn't a broken man. He just needs time and someone to be there for him. But men don't let you be there for them.
Lostpoet · M
@MysteriousRose it's because the piece that's missing can't just be fixed or replaced.
MysteriousRose · 26-30, F
@Lostpoet Another woman can't replace or fix what was there. She can only add to it or provide a different piece that you didn't have before. Something even better to your surprise.
Lostpoet · M
@MysteriousRose I think you are really smart, but I am old enough to know, that seconds never tastes as good as the first spoon full.
MysteriousRose · 26-30, F
@Lostpoet Could you also say that maybe the first spoon full wasn't as delicious as you thought?
Lostpoet · M
@MysteriousRose
But it
looked and smelled really good and I like to know what I'm eating before I even put it in my mouth.
MysteriousRose · 26-30, F
@Lostpoet Fair enough, I agree with you. If you switched places with a woman and saw your point of view through her eyes, would you say its fair to tell her that because of one woman or even a couple women that you've dated, and thought it would work out and it tasted good but, turned out she wasn't the one for you, that now any other woman after that will never be good enough? Despite the fact that what you originally tasted turned out to not be what you orginally perceived it to be.
Lostpoet · M
@MysteriousRose 😠Damn it, your right. But I think I'd rather just starve waiting for the soup to cool down.
MysteriousRose · 26-30, F
@Lostpoet I respect your opinion, I like to get to know what others thoughts are and gain new insight.
Lostpoet · M
@MysteriousRose agreed. Have fun. 🙂