My partners college friend sends him rude stuff on watsapp.

Everyday he sends something stupid and pornographic. My partner says he thinks its funny and doesnt ooen any of the videos but he still continues to send it.

Is annoying the hell out of me. What do i do?

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Lackwittyname · 51-55, M

But it is going to your partner, why does it annoy you, are you afraid he enjoys it, does it threaten you? Not trying to ask those in a mean way, but more a reflective way, if it does not bother your partner and he ignores them then why does it bother you, unless he is sending them to you too?

Clairessa09 · 31-35

@Lackwittyname I guess cos im anti porn. 😕 The videos he sends are funny for guys but not for us and as a woman i find it offensive thats why. Ystday he sent a video with a girl pooping tennis balls. Thats gross and disturbig

Lackwittyname · 51-55, M

@Clairessa09 Wow, that is stupid, the video, not your response. I too would be annoyed. I totally understand you being anti-porn, makes sense why it bothers you. This said I am really not sure you can do anything about it, your partner is a grown person. I fear if you make it a big deal with him, ie tell him to tell his friend to stop sending those it is going to make him feel as if you are trying to control him. I guess the only thing you can do, guessing you have, is express how they make you feel and accept whatever actions he chooses to pursue based on that.