she says i am over reacting, am i over reacting?

we have seeing each other since about last year and we are now living together, she doesn't let me see her laptop or phone she said they are my personal stuff.
i am not anyone i am her boyfriend i know her family her friends her habits, she took a big nasty shit while i was taking a shower.
there is no reason at all for her to hide things from me and call it personal.

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SW-User

Trust is a huge part of a relationship, is your phone/accounts open for her to see? Be secure in who you are and your relationship and you shouldn't need to see her phone/laptop

Mikado · 46-50, F

I don't have a problem with my partner going through my phone or laptop and he let's me go through his phone when I feel I need to but to be honest it's pointless because if someone wants to hide stuff from you they will just delete the evidence and cover their tracks..

Why do you want to see her phone or laptop? Is something making you feel suspicious?

KeyOKey · 36-40, M

@Mikado maybe its some awkward prom photos are something

SW-User

Yeah, you’re overreacting. It doesn’t matter who you are or what personal things they might have done in front of you; a person has a right to some privacy.

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