Do your partner's looks matter to you? Or have you been together so long they could look shit now?

I couldn't give a shit tbh. I fell for all of her. Not just her looks. Altho she could do with losing a few pounds may be 😋

Initially there has to be some sort of attraction.
My hope if/when I find someone is that they would be health conscious like me.

I think it’s relevant.

Looks always matter - to a point!!! But they aren’t the be all and end all. I’m happy with average most of the time

I think to a guy it’s really relevant. We are visual creatures.

Yes... we do our best to love you until death do us part but we need that visual attraction to keep our blood moving.

I hope it wouldn't matter to me