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Should I ask someone to marry me?

She's an old friend. Best friend I'd say. She's divorced. She's got money problems but if she sold her place and moved in with me she'd be in the clear and we could do pretty good. Problem is she's got her grown kids living with her (and grand kids). That would have to stop. (Good luck with that as the one girl is thirty, has never had a job, and won't get her driver's license! ) She lives in southern California and I'm in MN. Her parents are here too. I doubt she'd want to move. She can do her job anywhere. Just needs a phone. I suppose if I got layed off we could live somewhere else. Just dreaming. She's not going to want to marry me.
I don’t know, that’s a question only you should know the answer to i’d think. I mean if you truly have feelings for her and you know they’re mutual, and you think the outcome will be good then go for it. Although, she seems like she has a lot of baggage and that’s definitely something you should consider and think about before making a large commitment like that. Maybe think about what the possibilities maybe regarding her family living with her and having to move in with you as well before deciding something like that. 🤷🏽‍♀️
geekie · 22-25, F
I'm not smart but if U gotta ask here, I thnk it shud B NO
hertoy · 70-79, M
Although friendship is a good building block for marriage, it strikes me as she has too much baggage.
God - you are just looking for problems aren't you ?
@Stark I mean honestly - why would move from Southern Ca. and move to the midwest - ? cmon
mrbuddhawannabe · 56-60, M
I would not want to take on her adult children.
BlueRain · 51-55, F
Do you love her?

 
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