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Anyone had a bad experience as a teen hooking up with an older person?

Just curious if it turned out good or bad. Do you regret it?
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I never hooked up with an older person in my teens, because I had more respect about myself. I knew know how they think, and I’ve seen what happened to those who did. Hooking up with an older guy when you’re in your teens, is a wrong way to start out in life. They don’t think the way you do, and there’s a lot more to be learned, along with responsibility, than meets the eye. Most any older guy will flirt with a young, teenage girl, but for way different things than she thinks he is. That’s when they’re hormones are raging and all they’re thinking of is having free sex with you. Not respecting you, and a lady always places respect in the forefront, if she doesn’t want to be used. She also runs a high risk of unwanted pregnancy, no matter how careful she thinks she is. It’s just a plain, dumb idea. Too many teens have found that out the hard way. Then he moves on to the next free sex, leaving you behind and hurting. Plus a terrible reputation. You mean nothing to them, although they’ll tell you anything they think you want to hear, just as long as they can get sex from you...including the ridiculous “I love you.” Soon as they’re tired of you or bored, you are history, and left crying. Better to learn it now, than later. You lose innocence, trust from your parents, self-esteem, self-confidence, respect for yourself, and your virginity, which should mean something to you, but it doesn’t to an older lover. In the end, if you get pregnant, it’s not only you who suffers. It’s that innocent baby, as well.
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You must consider not only the consequences, which could mean an unwanted pregnancy, but the fact that it is not in God’s plan for your life...nor in your best interest. He does not approve of sex before marriage. There’s good reason for that. He knows the many problems and heartaches it can bring, that can last a lifetime. Also, read my last paragraph again, in the note I sent you. You’ll see what you lose. @ashlin
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I see. So you’d rather do things your way. But you have lost more than your virginity. Jesus said when our sins separate us from Him, that separates us from Him forever, unless we accept Him as our personal Savior, and have our sins forgiven. Then we can live in heaven forever. You have a soul that cannot die, but lives on in eternity. That’s the one thing you don’t want to ignore, because your decision determines where you’ll spend eternity. That’s the most important decision you’ll ever make in your life. I’ll not say anymore, but I hope you’ll give it some thought. @ashlin
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That’s no surprise. Think what you want. You’ll find out one day I wasn’t crazy after all. @ashlin