Yes when I was 14 and she was 26. Turned out good and never regret it.

I never hooked up with an older person in my teens, because I had more respect about myself. I knew know how they think, and I’ve seen what happened to those who did. Hooking up with an older guy when you’re in your teens, is a wrong way to start out in life. They don’t think the way you do, and there’s a lot more to be learned, along with responsibility, than meets the eye. Most any older guy will flirt with a young, teenage girl, but for way different things than she thinks he is. That’s when they’re hormones are raging and all they’re thinking of is having free sex with you. Not respecting you, and a lady always places respect in the forefront, if she doesn’t want to be used. She also runs a high risk of unwanted pregnancy, no matter how careful she thinks she is. It’s just a plain, dumb idea. Too many teens have found that out the hard way. Then he moves on to the next free sex, leaving you behind and hurting. Plus a terrible reputation. You mean nothing to them, although they’ll tell you anything they think you want to hear, just as long as they can get sex from you...including the ridiculous “I [b]love[/b] you.” Soon as they’re tired of you or bored, you are history, and left crying. Better to learn it now, than later. You lose innocence, trust from your parents, self-esteem, self-confidence, respect for yourself, and your virginity, which should mean something to you, but it doesn’t to an older lover. In the end, if you get pregnant, it’s not only you who suffers. It’s that innocent baby, as well.

Sure. It’s all fun and games, until it all goes downhill, and that’s not an “if”.... that’s a definite “when”. You’ll have regrets galore. God is against it. It is one of His commandments. It is violating what is supposed to be the sacred sharing of spirits and body in holy matrimony. Whoever you sleep with, you become one with in spirit and body. God takes that seriously. Fornication is a sin. That’s not the way God set things up, and He sets the standard for morality...not us.

Yes, a partner teaches you so much....except the consequences of sex outside of marriage. It breaks fellowship with God, as it is a sin. God cannot bless a life that is dedicated to sin. He wants the best for you. That lifestyle isn’t it.

What do you consider teen? I was 18 and slept with a guy who was 28. It wasn’t bad, but looking back I regret letting someone take advantage of my naïveté.

When I was a teen I hooked up with a much older single woman many times and never regretted it at all. She taught me so much. :)

Few of you are putting the best interests of this young young lady first. Is this how you would advise your 14 year old daughter to get started with an older man?

I was 16 and hooked up with my mums best friend

sounds like he was just one of the bad ones, sadly there are a good amount of those

What do you mean by hooking up?

I hooked up with someone who was 19. Was still rather a letdown