How would you politely tell your ex’s parents to stop sending you and your kids gifts?

They’ve been a huge part in our lives for 6 years. I love them as much as my own parents. But my ex has moved on and has hurt me so deeply. I’m struggling to cope with it all. But they live 5 hours away so i’ll probably never see them again. They sent us birthday gifts and each one hurt, reminding me of what I’d lost. I don’t want them sending Christmas gifts. But I can’t find the words to say goodbye either. I feel like I should explain as I know my ex won’t have said anything. They still don’t know why he got divorced.

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TexChik · F

They care deeply for you and certainly your kids ( their grandkids). You have a bond with them through your children. One can never have enough nice people in their lives and though they are the parents of your Ex , they are still good to you and your kids . Talk to them , treat them kindly and ask them what they would like to do. They love you and your kids ... don’t burn any bridges just yet . 😉. I’m so sorry you’ve been put through it like that 😕