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Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M
I went through a tough break up, friend suggested I throw myself out there on one.... met a few nice people... but decided that online dating wasn’t for me... a whole lot of small talk... nothing of substance most the time.
A month went by and I didn’t log into or keep contact with anyone... then I got a random message from a woman I had interest in but tried contacting a month prior...
I remember standing at the gas pump seeing her message come through and thinking... “ is it worth messaging back”.
I put my phone in my pocket and didn’t respond... that evening I opened up my phone and her message was in front of me again so I responded... didn’t have any intentions before that to...
To make a long story short, I dragged the online relationship out, and didn’t meet her for a month after that contact... we ended up getting married a year ago.
To me online dating sucked... even if I met my wife on there... but I have a buddy who married the first girl he ever messaged on an online dating site... so he has a different opinion.
A month went by and I didn’t log into or keep contact with anyone... then I got a random message from a woman I had interest in but tried contacting a month prior...
I remember standing at the gas pump seeing her message come through and thinking... “ is it worth messaging back”.
I put my phone in my pocket and didn’t respond... that evening I opened up my phone and her message was in front of me again so I responded... didn’t have any intentions before that to...
To make a long story short, I dragged the online relationship out, and didn’t meet her for a month after that contact... we ended up getting married a year ago.
To me online dating sucked... even if I met my wife on there... but I have a buddy who married the first girl he ever messaged on an online dating site... so he has a different opinion.