Should I text him? (please help, idk what to do)
Alright, there's a story that goes along with this so..
My ex, he's a sweetheart. He puts everyone before himself and does whatever he can to protect the ones he loves. That being said, the other day I told him about some things that were bothering me in our relationship. About an hour later he texts me saying that he's a bad boyfriend and wants us to break up because he doesn't want to hurt me anymore (even though he hasn't hurt me nearly as much as he must think he has). I tried to get him to calm down and think rationally but he wouldn't listen to me, and then eventually stopped responding to my texts completely.
Our friends say he's not acting like himself, and he seems more pissed (he tends to lash out when upset). And whenever they ask about me he begs them to change the topic.
I had only texted him on the night he did this which was on Tuesday, and that's because I didn't want him to think I'm nuts. Should I text him again saying how I feel about all this? Because this is driving me insane, I feel so awful. I've never felt this bad in my entire life.
I don't really know what to do about it to be honest, cause ever since he left nothing makes me happy and none of my coping skills are working. It hasn't even been a week and him being gone has caused so much damage to me, I can't imagine how it'll be a few months from now.
But anyways, thank you for listening. Have a wonderful day!
P.s. If I really should message him, any ideas on what I should say?
My ex, he's a sweetheart. He puts everyone before himself and does whatever he can to protect the ones he loves. That being said, the other day I told him about some things that were bothering me in our relationship. About an hour later he texts me saying that he's a bad boyfriend and wants us to break up because he doesn't want to hurt me anymore (even though he hasn't hurt me nearly as much as he must think he has). I tried to get him to calm down and think rationally but he wouldn't listen to me, and then eventually stopped responding to my texts completely.
Our friends say he's not acting like himself, and he seems more pissed (he tends to lash out when upset). And whenever they ask about me he begs them to change the topic.
I had only texted him on the night he did this which was on Tuesday, and that's because I didn't want him to think I'm nuts. Should I text him again saying how I feel about all this? Because this is driving me insane, I feel so awful. I've never felt this bad in my entire life.
I don't really know what to do about it to be honest, cause ever since he left nothing makes me happy and none of my coping skills are working. It hasn't even been a week and him being gone has caused so much damage to me, I can't imagine how it'll be a few months from now.
But anyways, thank you for listening. Have a wonderful day!
P.s. If I really should message him, any ideas on what I should say?
