Confused and alone

I've been married to the absolute love if my life for 2 years now and I don't feel like she's happy with me. Everytime I ask I always get the same answer"I'm fine" I stop pushing but I want to know so I can help fix things I love her so much and don't want to lose her. Should I press on?

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Northwest · M

On the one hand, you should let thing pile up, on the other hand, you can't be completely clueless, about what's bothering her.

You should not create a list, and confront her, but you may want to stop asking what's bothering her, and switch "what can I do to improve our relationship". Don't make it about her, and discuss it as if it's a normal thing for people who want to be proactive, rather than reactive.