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SW-User
You could ask him to use video skype etc on his phone or laptop and take you on a tour of his house into all the rooms. If he says he needs a week to prepare then something's up, but if he says, sure i'll do it now then probably everything is legit.

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@SW-User What if the man is unhappily married?
ladysaya · 36-40, F
@SW-User that a very good one .

SW-User
@ladysaya If one is suspicious, or has something to hide. I guess it's not possible one meets online between 30-50 without suspicion that mirrors life

SW-User
@SW-User Then he needs to be honest about that. Lying at the beginning of the relationship, whatever the reason will destroy any hope of trust in the future.

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@SW-User Who?

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@SW-User The man. You asked what if he's unhappily married?

SW-User
@SW-User Yes. I was once was, and happily together. Oh, you feel the man will hurt that?

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@SW-User Sorry, i wasn't talking about your marriage i meant if the guy that the OP is referring to is married, then he could comfortably video the inside of his house without it showing that there was a woman living there.

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@SW-User That's fine. Never really been married, other than twice without a ring
ladysaya · 36-40, F
if i was a men and i was unhappily married i will leave , if the guy is pakistan then he is happy he might have 3 or for 4 wife , my be he need another wife , who knows now this day .