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I need help. What should I do?

Ok so I know this girl. She's perfect. She's everything I've thought was great in a person. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her. I've been just about dying to talk to her every second I could. I'd even get my job done so I could help her with her work. I would do just about anything for her.. but I don't know if this is blind love or true love or whatever this is. I don't know if she likes me back, I don't know if it would work out between us, and I'm scared now to even think about it. To even think about asking her sends shivers up my spine. I already tried this dating thing. The other girl lied to me, cheated on me, and then didn't care when it ended. It was like nothing happened. For two years I thought that was love. True love. I was a blind fool for believing in that and now I'm scared to ask this girl out. What should I do?
Well just see if you both click, you'll just know if you do. I've spent many a month/year pining over someone but it was just silly because i never did anything about it.
I've also been in that same situation, i loved that person but to her it was like nothing had even happened. So i know the feeling of not wanting to get hurt again, oh too well.
Just ask her if she wants to come over sometime or if she wants to go for a drink, if she likes you she'll make the time for you.
Just be prepared for the latter, if not then theres someone more suitable for you.
Like people say, you've got your whole life ahead of you. Took me a nearly 2 years to get over mine and i've got so much clarity now as a result. Just have fun man!.
Go for it!! Ask her out!! It will be the only way if you can ever make a chance with her.. But take some time to get to know each other. Never run into things too quickly. Only time will tell.
DeltaEcho · 26-30, M
.. ya I know. Time is defiantly not on my side. Thanks
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DeltaEcho · 26-30, M
Ya I know you're right. They are two different people. I just don't want to be Einstein's definition of insane.
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Flenflyys · 31-35, F
This girl isn't he same person as the last one. Ask her out!
DeltaEcho · 26-30, M
I know she's not the same but.. Idk I'm still thinking about it.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
It's normal to be nervous but you'll regret it if you don't at least try
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
oh brother, do them all a favor and get yourself a real doll.
DeltaEcho · 26-30, M
What do you mean?

 
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