what makes a guy creepy without being directly creepy?

recently 2 girls (not related) got a creepy vibe off of me and it's really made me feel upset. I'm a really laid back guy and i like being positive and smile but these past 2 dates with 2 different girls hasn't gone well :/

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ZeroFox · 36-40, M

"Creepy" is a subjective term and it dpends on a woman's level of attraction towards you.

Want to be less creepy? Be more attractive.

JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M

@ZeroFox amazing advice haha

ZeroFox · 36-40, M

@JoshuaCo19 Honestly, dude, you're at the toughest age for dating as a man.

JoshuaCo19 · 26-30, M

@ZeroFox toughest? what do you mean?

ZeroFox · 36-40, M

@JoshuaCo19 When you're younger than 18, you can date girls your age because they are still minors, so you're even.

Once a woman turns 18, she's going to be hit on by guys of all ages. At 18, a man cannot compete with a man, lets say 28, because the 28 year old is likely educated and on his way to an established career.

A man's resources are the most important quality to women, so they prefer older and established men. Beauty is the most important quality to men, so they prefer young women.

Expired · M

@ZeroFox Excellent answer. You nailed it.