Why are older men wary of me?

I prefer older men, but when I flirt with them they look at me with suspicion. I thought being younger would be to my advantage, but it actually seems to scare them away.

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TexChik · F

In this culture, some women claim sexual assault and threaten to make public charges if they are not paid off. Older men are experienced and just don’t trust a younger woman that is overly friendly. Try a much slower , respectable approach. Become friends first , be kind and interested and let him make the first move .

Looking

@TexChik If I like someone I struggle to hide it. I’ve always been this way.

TexChik · F

@Looking Older men are afraid of being inadequate and embarrassed... being sought after by a younger woman is intimidating. To remove the fear you have to be vulnerable, need their help , make them feel strong and manly . Do that and you’ll get that experience your looking for .

Looking

@TexChik In my experience being vulnerable doesn’t work.

TexChik · F

@Looking 🤷🏻‍♀️

Looking

@TexChik There’s a reason for that though, one that I can’t help.