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Soulmate

I've known him since I was 14. Never really dated because he was my best friend and I didn't want to ruin what we had. He was in and out of my life due to him moving away. Not far but far enough to to need a car to get over there. He changed schools as well.
He was the type of friend to call me to say good night and would oovoo with me till dawn if I wanted too. I knew he liked me but I pushed it aside and he did too since he dated around as did I.
I went to go get my cards read last year. (Different story which will come up) I had a boyfriend at the time and the card reader had asked who the guy I was dating was,what his name was, I told him. He said we weren't for each other. He said someone would come back into my life and he was going to be the one to make me happy. The one I would stay with.
He also told me the guy I was dating had cheated on me, which was in fact true.
I stayed alone after him and I liked it.
My best friend (iz) and I reconnected and hung out. We hung out constantly. He told me he liked me and I told him I wasn't ready because I didn't love myself.
He didn't care and kept hanging out with me.
One day I got high and it clicked (I get Epiphanys when I'm high) everything the card reader had told me went back to him. I also got my palm read and everything led to him. I told him about it (Hahahaha) he didn't think I was crazy. He just took it in. Or tried to.
Well, it's been going great for us. I definitely know he's for me. Even before I had that epiphany, I just really liked him. It's been 7 years knowing him and everything feels right.
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greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
If you two really have a special bond, then maybe it's time to take it seriously enough to start planning a wedding.
Menaa8D · 26-30, F
I don't believe in marriage. My parents didn't work out and neither did his. I'm happy th being with him for a long time without having that in the back of my head :)
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Many marriages don't work. But about half of them do. It also provides some legal protection for children. Women are generally treated with more respect married than as a girlfriend, if not by their partner, by the world in general. Marriage solidifies a social connection. Feelings shift and change a lot over time. An official commitment creates some stability to rest on if and when things get rocky.