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Mamapolo2016 · F
Such questions always need definition of terms. We use 'love' when it's not, really. You can want desperately to be in someone's presence, you can want to be in their bed, you can crave their good opinion, you can feel jealous when they smile at their dog. That's infatuation, and it's probably not a choice. It's hormone driven.
When you love someone, you want what's best for them, which may or may not include you. That's a choice.
When you love someone, you want what's best for them, which may or may not include you. That's a choice.