Is Love a choice or a feeling?

Please explain why you think this..?

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I do not think you choose to love, it happens. Though those in arranged marriages sometimes will come to love one another, still, I do not think it is a choice but something that happens over time.

silver1sil · 26-30, FVIP

@Lackwittyname But technically speaking in this case wouldn't it be a choice...? I mean You are choosing to care for this person.

Lackwittyname · M

@silver1sil I think you are choosing to abide by the arranged marriage. What happens over time is that feeling develop (or don't) and then a type of love happens.