Have you ever been cheated on?

I was in love and involved with a guy for 9 years. Then he died of lung cancer; he was a heavy smoker.

Within minutes of receiving the news that he'd died, I found out he'd cheated on me with multiple women. I also found out that, a couple of days before he died, he'd married one of these women, in the resort town where we had spent a romantic weekend, on my birthday.

Emotionally, it was like being run over by a steamroller.

A number of years later, I put a sign on his grave that read: WHY DIDN'T YOU JUST QUIT SMOKING?!