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for those that are still interested in guys

no wonder so many guys act bad,because that's what womens go for
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SW-User
That kind of passive aggressive attitude 'nice guys' use to feel bitter about women not giving them attention is getting old.
If nice guys were less passive and did something about the girl they liked, they might not be ignored. It is bullshit that all women go for men who are horrible to them.
SW-User
@SW-User it’s also BS that “nice guys” would never dump a girl or cheat.
SW-User
@SW-User It is some of these 'nice guys' who pretend to be all sweet and whatnot and turn something quite surprisingly nasty when things don't go their way.
Aydao · 26-30, M
@SW-User I didn't said all,a guy that pretends to be nice its just a bad guy,lol,this debate is meaningless
SW-User
@Aydao There is no such thing as a nice guy or a bad guy. Nice guys do bad things and bad guys can do nice things.
It's about the way a person presents themselves.
Someone always passive is not going to be attractive to a female. No matter how nice he is.

And okay. I'm not that interested in debating this. From experience, people who love to blame genders never change their minds or see things from a different perspective.
Aydao · 26-30, M
that's true,never blame a whole gender since I hate when some womens turn out to hate all males becoming a feminist just because they had a bad experience with a guy in the past,i'm also talking from experince,by no means I hate girls or even close to that,just sharing my thoughts
SW-User
@Aydao I am glad you understand that. If you're having such an experience with women, either look at your approach or look at the kind of women you're going for. Or both.
What women want is genuine attention. But not so much that it becomes suffocating.
Aydao · 26-30, M
@SW-User Oh trust me,when I talk to a woman,I give her all the attention in the world,but I get back close to none usually.
SW-User
@Aydao Then it must be the kind of women you are attracted to.
Aydao · 26-30, M
@SW-User honestly i'm not,I like womens that shows at least half my interest in them back to me,I usually stop messaging them when I see there's no point,and if they just stop messaging overall,i'm a big sucker for attention just like womens are,I want to feel cared for and loved,not the opposite.
SW-User
@Aydao If you're talking about online, then let me tell you, it's one of the most fickle places to look for connection.
Most people are just bored and jumping around from one person to the next. It's rare to find people who want to bond.
Aydao · 26-30, M
@SW-User true but you cant denide the fact womens get a whole lot more attention compared to guys overall
SW-User
@Aydao On average, yes. But not all women. A specific group of women. And there is a specific group of men, a smaller group albeit, also get that attention.
SW-User
@Aydao what kind of attention do guys want?
Aydao · 26-30, M
@SW-User the same girls want,just attention,so you wont feel like its an one sided conversation only
Shawnkautzman1 · 51-55, M
@SW-User i know. I don't get it.