you know....I had this proven to me by a 'ladies man' who was a friend - we used to people watch together. He showed me i a night club one night....he caught the attention of this pretty young thing...and then proceeded to ignore her, and respond minimally ...she was all over him like a rash. I was blown away !
@Aydao And I was one of them. I mean,,,I had my reasons at the time....i was experimenting.....and I didn't want to read hearts....so I went for the bad guys.
but looking back...i sometimes wonder should I have chosen differently. ?
So hard to know. i think the experiences would have been better....but i think i would have hurt more people. But i see now....i was searching for know;edge in the wrong place. Generally speaking......good looking people.....are, in truth, shit lovers. They rely on their appearance to draw people in.....and I feel sorry for them.
@BoobooSnafu well there are also both good looking people that are both nice,I dont consider myself super good looking but not ugly either,I asked different people how I look and they said I dont look too bad,I will never use my looks to manipulate someone,its just not who I am,and I know all womens regret in the end going for bad guys,its sad some of them start hating on all males just because they made the mistake of trusting the bad ones.
@Aydao Yeah....and vice a versa. I;m only generalising. I have know a few good looking people who were beautiful underneath too. But that is because,....they never focused in their own looks. I'm talking about the ones....that nature gifted....and they became seduced by it. It's amazing how many 'beautiful people '....spend hours on improving their appearance even more.
@BoobooSnafu I dont spend too much time on my looks,but not looking too bad either,just not dirty or anything like that,the rest is just being overal a person that is genuinte towards others,a nice person.
@Aydao good on you. Eventually ......entropy hits us all. If you have had to grow no ethics or empathy towards your fellow man....it's a hard wake up call late in life.....and hard to learn at that stage.
Iv'e seen once beautiful people become bitter and mean, because they feel cheated. Where the thing is.....they were gifted unlike the majority us. They just, took it for granted.
@Aydao That's profound for someone of your age. I'm glad you can see this. Every action we choose, has a flow on affect.....and it is our legacy we leave behind us.
Well done young man...it gives me hope for mankind when I hear younger people seeing these things.....I wish there were more of you.
@BoobooSnafu sometimes still I wont change myself just to fit in a shitty society,good people will appreciate other good people,that's realyl enough for me
