How do you get over somebody you shouldn't love?

I've been in love with her for 4 years but I know, I can't be with her, but I can't shake the feelings I have for her. What can I do?

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Vivaci Best Comment

Move away from them. Out of sight out of mind.

GavS91 · 31-35, M

@Vivaci I did for 2 years, didn't really help that I had to come home to support my parents

Vivaci

@GavS91 You need to accept that you were not meant to be together.

When you accept, then you will find another more satisfying relationship elsewhere.

GavS91 · 31-35, M

@Vivaci True.

Vivaci

@GavS91 Do it then... 🤗

GavS91 · 31-35, M

@Vivaci lool it's easier said than done tbh

Vivaci

@GavS91 It's not. You will always have a special place in your heart for her.

But you need to look away and imagine some other girl you like.

Vivaci

@GavS91 Ty for BA! 😏 💕

GavS91 · 31-35, M

@Vivaci Thank You for the helpful advice

Vivaci

@GavS91 my pleasure. I feel for you! 🤗