Could you ever stay with someone that cheated on you?

This question, in general, not you asking it but people viewing it as black and white needs to go away. There can be waaaay too many factors beyond the cheating. For example my oldest son is autistic. My daughter is “gifted “ academically. Both kids required things that regular school does not provide. Very very expensive things! Like we could have bought 3 houses expensive! So if my wife or I had cheated on the other back then, the one who didn’t cheat would have been like, hope you had fun, now back to paying for and “curing” autism!!

It’s just too different of a decision for the people going through it to be able to stand on principle! Unfortunately when those real life reasons end up making someone stay, often times they end up becoming the bad guy in other people’s eyes!! “Oh I would have..,” “How could she stay after...”

If you have a friend going through it. Keep your opinion to yourself. You most likely don’t have all the facts!

At the same time, all those real life things DO NOT excuse the behavior!!

Best wishes Coprolalia!! Make the decision that’s right for you!!