Could you ever stay with someone that cheated on you?

@Dusty101 really? I'd say it's worse when you've been together a long time

@SW-User I wouldn't mind a drunken one off mistake...
But if he was having a sneaky affair behind my back and it was serious.
I'd give him a hand by letting him and her have each other.
I'm far too old to be battling with that shite..
My quality of life is important and I'd just shut that stress out.
The one night thing would be acceptable to me.. as I think something happens during a midlife crisis and I'd accept it. Only if it was a one off.

@Dusty101 that's a very honest and heartfelt answer.

In the same situation, would you expect to be forgiven?

@SW-User well I can't make him understand my reasoning.
As he has his own mind.
But if I came home and told him I cheated on him. If the circumstances were true and guilt ridden I would hope he would.
But if I enjoyed every minute and he lit me up like a Christmas tree and I had no guilt... I don't think he'd forgive me...
He would know our marriage is over.
There are different circumstances for forgiving and not forgiving.
But I'd still forgive him. Perhaps my wiring is a little out of sorts. But I truly would.

I guess unless it happens I couldn't really say for sure...but I don't think I could forgive and I wouldn't expect to be forgiven.

There's no right and wrong answer though..we're all different