Should I even listen to them?

I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months now. And he’s honestly great.. he treats me like a queen, he likes me for who I am, and we honestly connect on so many levels... my mother and sister tell me I “can do better”. I’m really close to my mom and sister, and respect their opinions, but at the same time I feel they’re being extremely judgmental... there haven’t been any red flags thus far, and I just don’t even know what to feel...

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dragonfly46 · F

Is he an underachiever? Are they worried he can't pull his own weight?? Is he lazy??
Find out what they are seeing.

Acadiaisgone · 22-25, F

@dragonfly46 none of the above at all. I’ll ask again honestly.

dragonfly46 · F

@Acadiaisgone If they can't give you an answer that rings true, tell them thank you, but you need to live your own life. If you are happy with him, and he brings out good in you, then they should be happy. I'd be concerned too, especially if it's unusual for them to be this way.

Acadiaisgone · 22-25, F

@dragonfly46 You’re right. And honestly, it isn’t very unusual now that I think about it..... they’re just very protective of me since I’m the “baby”, but it’s to the point where nothing is right for me.