Have you ever dated someone who was bat s**t crazy?

@Starcrossed Wow, sorry to hear that.

@uncalled4 *nods*😌

@Starcrossed If you don't mind, where are you at now?

@uncalled4 ? In my basement.

@Starcrossed Lol. I meant in your proceedings.

@uncalled4 not even started. He refused to discuss 50/50 custody even with a therapist. We can't afford a lawyer, mediation failed. He won't cooperate to talk through it on our own.
We had several horrible things happen last year [horrible accident, I couldn't walk for a couple months; 12 year old dog our first 'baby' had be put down, and more].
Just gotta get by one day at a time. It can't stay like this forever.

@Starcrossed You're right about the last part. While it's unfortunate that things are lagging, you could do what I did so brilliantly, which was jump into another relationship with an abusive control freak. Never saw the damn train coming.

@uncalled4 :( well, I've found myself in some pretty dumb emotional quagmires with a very unwell guy met on EP. So yeah, get the unfortunate jump to worse. Or rather an epically failed attempt to jump... like when the cat misjudges the jump to the table...

@Starcrossed For me, it was a different worse. She was prettier and more attractive than my ex, about 100 additional IQ points, sharp and funny, domestic goddess, etc. better in ways I had never considered, but was Queen of all Control Freaks. Tracked down my women friends at their jobs to yell at them for speaking to me. Hacked into every computer. Threw away whole bunches of my stuff. Demanded all my passwords(I laughed at her). Got physical when she drank.

@uncalled4 ick.

@Starcrossed Guys are idiots. Idiots.

@uncalled4 bitches be crazy. ALL of us. Even me.

@Starcrossed Oh yeah! Instead of that "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" book, it's like "Women Are Crazy, Men Are Stupid". I do have a few close women friends who are just amazing, though.

@Starcrossed Holy crap, what a mess of a situation...