What should I say when my boyfriend calls himself ugly?

I mean, I don’t want to lie to him. He knows what he looks like. I’m not with him because he’s hot 😂

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BeefySenpie · M

To be honest, if that's how you really feel about him, I feel sorry for him

MorbidCynic · F

@BeefySenpie why? I think he’s a great guy, I think it’s better that I’m not with him because of his looks 😂

BeefySenpie · M

@MorbidCynic Of course you shouldn't be with him [i]just[/i] for his looks, but there should be reasonable physical attraction plus the other great things he brings to the table

MorbidCynic · F

Well I normally care about that but I didn’t this time but I’m still happy @BeefySenpie

DDonde · 31-35, M

@MorbidCynic I feel bad for him too. Nobody wants to be ugly.

BeefySenpie · M

@MorbidCynic Well that's great, but clearly he's having doubts. Reassurance is what he wants from you. I'd say nothing at all because that's better than lying

MorbidCynic · F

It’s not my fault 😭 I didn’t make him that way @DDonde

BeefySenpie · M

@MorbidCynic Does he actually know you [b]don't[/b] find him attractive? If he ever questions you, and you give him an honest answer it'll tear him to pieces. Nothing personal, but this seems messed up

MorbidCynic · F

@BeefySenpie I’m obviously into him or else I wouldn’t be with him 😂