How should I approach talking to my husband about this?

My husband said that he might not be able to handle being in the delivery room with me when our twins are born. Not trying to be selfish, but if I needed him to be there for me emotionally, should I persuade him to do otherwise?

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kate21 · 26-30, F

I’d try to understand his feelings but make your needs clear as well. Unless he just cannot cope and his presence is going to create more issues than it solves, this is definitely one of those times when you would be justified in saying he doesn’t have a choice.

Maybe watch some birthing videos together so he understands whats going to happen. Perhaps talk to a therapist about his fears and see if you can get him over them.