Why do crushes hurt so bad?

This is torture, this is not fun.

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RubySoo · 56-60, F Best Comment

Crushes can be fun.....when its entirely fantasy....someone unobtainable like a celeb. But when its someone you know.....and that 'maybe it could be sonething more' sneeks in.....it can become very confusing and painful....

VioletSea · 26-30, F

@RubySoo Very true, with celebrities you can detatch fantasy from reality. With a person only a few miles away who could potentially be your future it is scary, painful, confusing, all of the above.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@VioletSea thanks for best answer.

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JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M

Because you've created an attachment to something outside of yourself

VioletSea · 26-30, F

@JovialPlutonian Oh no.

JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M

@VioletSea but this is like the breathing in and out of god, the attachment then detachment, attachment, detachment. You have to let go of love in order to experience having it again. And we do this again and again and again.

SW-User

Maybe you crush on people who didn’t show you interest in the first place ?

edgyfox · 36-40, M

This is one of many reasons I stay single.

LyricalOne · F

Hurts so good. 😉

JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M

@LyricalOne that's a good song

newmoon089 · 18-21, F

What if you don't crush on anyone, then no feelings hurt right?

SW-User

What do u mean

TacoCat · 26-30, M

You should kill them

VioletSea · 26-30, F

@TacoCat I'm so tempted to make this best answer 🤣🤣🤣🤣

TacoCat · 26-30, M

@VioletSea why don't you 👀 pls?

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