I've seen many guys on the internet complain about females wanting to do things that consist of not staying home, per se...

I'm not meaning that a couple has to go out All The Time, what I mean is it appears to be A Lot of the time the guys want to stay home to do nothing (or do the same mundane things repeatedly). It seems they want to go out with the female in the beginning but soon changes to a "comfortable" (for lack of a better word) level of... doing nothing at all. Staring at the same 4 walls majority of the time.

I can stare at the same 4 walls by myself just fine. Why add someone else into the scene to do that?

So if I can do more for/with myself while alone what's the point in dating/entering into a relationship.

(*I am aware this may come off the wrong way when I mention it about guys but it can be the opposite as well :) )

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TheGreatLeveler · 31-35, M

I always prefer to pursue activities outdoors and would appreciate anyone who has that influence on me. It depends though. On workdays I rather just stay in and rest and sometimes you might need to save up.

dreamsicle · 46-50, F

@TheGreatLeveler Totally understandable .

Phire1 · 51-55, F

@TheGreatLeveler That leads me to yet another question... just how much does money play a part in dating/relationships. I know there can be creative cheap ways to do things together. But, how much does money play a part when one can afford to do more than the other can?

As for workdays - I think it depends on what type of work each are involved in as to how much and what kind of energy they may have to do things not only during the week but also on weekends. Sometimes, it can be difficult to try to fit a lot in on only weekends depending on family, friends, the couples' time together alone, so forth