how do you make someone want to spend time with you?

i told my bf i wanted to go out with him tonight but he got mad at me and said that he wanted to spend time with his friends tonight. its friday night and hes ditching me. 😭 how can i make him want to choose me instead of his friends?

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kate21 · 26-30, F

some people just need one person to be happy, and some people need lots of people to be happy.

sounds like he does want to spend time with you (you do live together, after all), but he needs to spend time with friends as well.

If i can be blunt, you need to learn to be okay with that. Relationships are about give and take.

HannahBannah · 22-25, F

@kate21 yea but going out is different. hell go out with his friends but not me?

kate21 · 26-30, F

@HannahBannah he needs some guy times. just like us girls, guys need time with their friends. they get something different out of those relationships, not better just different, and they can talk about guy things.