how do you make someone want to spend time with you?

i told my bf i wanted to go out with him tonight but he got mad at me and said that he wanted to spend time with his friends tonight. its friday night and hes ditching me. 😭 how can i make him want to choose me instead of his friends?

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GlitterBug · 22-25, F

It’s not really about you vs his friends. If you want to spend time with him and he has other plans it’s not going to happen and it shouldn’t have to, you should plan ahead a little and make plans with him when he doesn’t already have any. Maybe when he isn’t busy talk to him about that and see what will work so you can spend more time together without having to sacrifice either of your friendships in the process