Who Needs A Man?

Carissimi. I had a wife who treated me so badly, I was hospitalized.
Now I have many women who just want to use me to fill their need for love and friendship. They start off leading me to believe we can have more, but then realize a good friend is rarer than a lover. So they go get a lover and come cry on my shoulder when they have problems. It hurts me when they do it again and again. Who am I? dirt? So like you, I have stopped looking and am living my life "alone." I am grateful for whatever comes my way. But I no longer feel entitled to anything, nor do I want to. I work for all I have. I do it honestly too.
So it can be done as you suggest.