Literally realizing that 90% of my personal relationships have been abusive

And yet I’ve got a massive heart so suck on that past trauma

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Elegy · 46-50

Depending on the situations that could be considered a pattern. I would suggest that you thing very carefully moving forward.

celine211 · 22-25, F

@Elegy Agree its a psychology thing

antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F

I’m working on it . A friend of mine is trying to help me stay angry when people hurt me instead of instantly getting over it @Elegy

celine211 · 22-25, F

@antisocialbutterfly SHIT I'm relating too much to this

Elegy · 46-50

@antisocialbutterfly forgiveness is a gift and your reaction after the fact is almost negligible in comparison to recignizing your patterns and protecting yourself proactively.

antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F

I know I need to work on it

Elegy · 46-50

@antisocialbutterfly for your own sake. Not because a bunch of armchair psycho analyst blowhards say so. Do it for you.

antisocialbutterfly · 22-25, F

It’s hard

Elegy · 46-50

@antisocialbutterfly I know but you have to Care enough about yourself and believe that you are worth the effort.