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Have you ever dated (or dating now) a control freak? How was the experience?

My ex girl friend was a control freak..

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PlumBerries · 31-35, F

yes and it was a incredibly bad part of my life due to him

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@PlumBerries Sorry to hear that :-(

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

thanks

Helganvisari25 · 51-55, M

Unfortunately I have. She wanted to control everything. When I asked her if she wanted a boyfriend or a slave (and I don't mean BDSM), she answered "YES." I was out of there like a bat of of hell. She was a very insecure person.

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@Helganvisari25 Insecurity is the root cause I guess

Les02 · 26-30, F

Fortunately not, it would last about five minutes with me.

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@Les02 I guess, you are good in reading warning signs!

Les02 · 26-30, F

@friendinneed I don’t think they are that hard to recognise, I believe it’s a sign of insecurity.

mindstruggle · 31-35, F

Not dating but a colleague. Gawd I swear I almost want to quit my job.

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@mindstruggle I feel you

AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F

I did..took me a long time to break free.

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@AlmostAnAngel Oh :-( How did you manage to break up?

AlmostAnAngel · 100+, F

@friendinneed I moved out of state.

revenant · F

they make you lose your soul

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@revenant :-(

MellyMel22 · F

Yeah and it’s not pretty

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@MellyMel22 How did you deal with it?

SW-User

I am currently in a relationship with one.

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@SW-User How are you handling it?

SW-User

@friendinneed i suppose because I love her I just grew to tolerate it.

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

Hi my names Rena and I am a control freak it’s been at least 4 hours since my last need for control.

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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

All of our actions and personality traits impact our relationships. But negatively no. I take baby steps at learning to trust others and he has immense patience not to mention understanding where that drive stems from which is an anxiety and love ridden place.@friendinneed

friendinneed · 41-45, M

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit This is amazing.. You guys are dealing things in such a mature manner.. Best wishes..

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

@friendinneed I thank you!

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